tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post116084222703604782..comments2024-03-27T23:21:33.110-04:00Comments on Infertility SUCKS!: SilencedShttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03784823185795103613noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-1161220283987991952006-10-18T21:11:00.000-04:002006-10-18T21:11:00.000-04:00You know-- her posts got me wondering also. I gue...You know-- her posts got me wondering also. I guess that's why I post almost nothing on what we're doing... but still-- if my doctor wer eto have foudn out- I certainly hope she would be prof. about it. Knowing how hard this was for us. It's not about them-- it's a place for us to hash, get feedback, and have support. I don't kjnwo about you- but I know only 1 person outside of blog/internet land who is also dealing with this. Our blogs link us-- in ways I certainly don't have IRL. Shame on them for putting her in such a spot. I doubt they would have found her if they hadn't been trying so blasted hard.Melziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00283713850096053116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-1161107892559539672006-10-17T13:58:00.000-04:002006-10-17T13:58:00.000-04:00You don't know me, but I just wanted to write you ...You don't know me, but I just wanted to write you a quick note to say thank you for having a blog. I have spent the past week at work reading all of your posts and I just really appreciate the way you put into words what we are all feeling. I am only 26 and just starting on this infertile journey, but it gives me comfort to know that I am not alone and that there are strong women out there like you who are going through the same types of heartache. Anyway I'm on the other side of the nation but I just wanted to drop you a quick comment. <BR/><BR/>THANKS!Sassy McSassersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10519342989009953677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-1161011006035974842006-10-16T11:03:00.000-04:002006-10-16T11:03:00.000-04:00Our adoption agency did the same thing to us. They...Our adoption agency did the same thing to us. They were unethical and have left us feeling violated. <BR/><BR/>I am outraged that her doctor would bring it up. Her RE should be ashamed!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-1160921088095048902006-10-15T10:04:00.000-04:002006-10-15T10:04:00.000-04:00I can understand both sides as well, and you're ri...I can understand both sides as well, and you're right-physicians are human beings like the rest of us (even if they always don't act like them at times). However, many offices have message boards available to their patients (my RE has one), so they are in essence opening themselves up to criticism. <BR/><BR/>I still don't think that her RE handled it appropriately though (just my opinion)-especially since the other office staff specifically said not to bring it up, so I feel that, although they may have been upset, they probably understood, to a degree.<BR/><BR/>*Sigh*-it's just a sucky situation, all aroundShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03784823185795103613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-1160915533843553762006-10-15T08:32:00.000-04:002006-10-15T08:32:00.000-04:00Lut C, you are right. It isn't much fun to find a...Lut C, you are right. It isn't much fun to find a blog that has talked about you (been there, found that). It can hurt a great deal when someone feels that they cannot tell you something to your face, and choose to release the feelings/comments into the blogosphere instead. However, I do feel this is a little different to Thalia's situation. Maybe this is a good reminder that we should think twice before we open our mouths, or hit that 'publish' button...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-1160913115509341482006-10-15T07:51:00.000-04:002006-10-15T07:51:00.000-04:00What a lovely post, sweetie, thank you so much. A ...What a lovely post, sweetie, thank you so much. A very thoughtful discussion of the issues, much of which I've thought myself. Perhaps at the end of this saga, my docs will have learnt something valuable.Thaliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12125639207843989848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-1160863085569369762006-10-14T17:58:00.000-04:002006-10-14T17:58:00.000-04:00I'm sad to see her go, but I understand the doctor...I'm sad to see her go, but I understand the doctor's sense of unease. They're only human. Perhaps a blog reminds them of that too much? <BR/><BR/>I know I would not like to be talked about on the internet. When someone gossips about you, you generally don't know, and when you find out you're upset. <BR/>A conversation with a counsellor is private. <BR/><BR/>But I don't think blogging is wrong either.Lut C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03893061829410958985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-1160843011996080772006-10-14T12:23:00.000-04:002006-10-14T12:23:00.000-04:00what a crock of shit!oh, boo hoo, you poor, sad, o...what a crock of shit!<BR/><BR/>oh, boo hoo, you poor, sad, overpaid, filthy rich RE! You got your feelings hurt. So fucking what! You should be glad to get a blunt insight into what one of your patients is going thru, it COULD help your practice if you let it. Instead, your fragile ego won't allow anyone to say anything negative about you. Insecure much?<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry that Thalia has been silenced, I hope she gets to go over to the other side very soon and picks up where she left off. I hope we all get to join her too.Nickiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04685076574146821569noreply@blogger.com