tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post4802555918755905694..comments2024-03-27T23:21:33.110-04:00Comments on Infertility SUCKS!: 4dt5dt-Self-Preservation Is My New Best FriendShttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03784823185795103613noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-36274072012509460162010-01-22T21:36:12.578-05:002010-01-22T21:36:12.578-05:00I read your post and cried. I too am in the same ...I read your post and cried. I too am in the same boat as you, watching everyone else in the world become pregnant around me when everything else seems to be going completely wrong in my world of trying. My brother in law and sister in law had only been married for two months when they got pregnant. On top of that they had not had their first child a year when they got pregnant with their second child.<br /><br />I currently have PCOS and have been trying for what seems like an eternity to have children. Other people don't get it that there are some people out there who aren't brood mares like some of the bitches out there who like to flaunt their fertility. <br /><br />Hang tough chick - we are all in this boat together ;)The Leaderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17810705381398779863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-48640641822385397052009-10-02T15:36:30.574-04:002009-10-02T15:36:30.574-04:00I'm so with you! I feel like every time I turn...I'm so with you! I feel like every time I turn around, 3 more people are pregnant! And seemingly in an instant! Frustrating, isn't it? Blogging is such a good way to vent those frustrations, though.Blondiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12127240005780171295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-34725105362635647522009-10-02T11:18:37.097-04:002009-10-02T11:18:37.097-04:00How are you doing, Stef?
Know that all your ff bud...How are you doing, Stef?<br />Know that all your ff buddies are still hangin' in with you!Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10960363363682485870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-14105445765508762192009-10-01T07:48:17.658-04:002009-10-01T07:48:17.658-04:00limbo sucks. and your family are horribly insensit...limbo sucks. and your family are horribly insensitive. Hang in there.Thaliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12125639207843989848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-66581133566234781142009-09-30T21:47:56.163-04:002009-09-30T21:47:56.163-04:00Sorry, Stef!
Before the boys, my mother actually t...Sorry, Stef!<br />Before the boys, my mother actually told me that if it wasn't happening naturally, to just forget about it and that kids weren't worth it! WTF, right?<br />Just know, as much as it isn't a comfort, that a whole bunch loads of us have had stupid people saying stupid things to us about stupid fertile people who get "surprises"!Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10960363363682485870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-75767287117552706602009-09-30T20:13:53.742-04:002009-09-30T20:13:53.742-04:00I just read your post and here i am going to vent!...I just read your post and here i am going to vent! This just happened to me! I have PCOS and me and my husband have been trying for for a baby for about 7 years now. I have finally just given up for now and have to get my body back into shape. After all the drugs, my dr. has told me now i need to lose some weight and try again that this will help. Dealing with all of this, my brother in-law and sister in-law just called us last friday and did the same thing. At least you were able to say something i just started crying. I hate this. I am happy for them but just can't deal with them right now. and if one more person tells me "It will happen when it is meant to be" I am going to scream!!! Take care of yourself and all I have to say is people just don't get it! Until you have been there month after month SHUT UP!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08473248969423266110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-47035846604708273762009-09-29T22:13:24.160-04:002009-09-29T22:13:24.160-04:00little fucking fuckers.
I'm sorry honey.little fucking fuckers.<br /><br />I'm sorry honey.Shellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03159550437519461534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-14864554627121684012009-09-29T20:35:32.987-04:002009-09-29T20:35:32.987-04:00I just found your blog, and I am so sorry to read ...I just found your blog, and I am so sorry to read about the hurt you're going through right now, and that your parents do not understand how difficult it is for you. You're absolutely right in making yourself your first priority right now. Stress is a progesterone killer! It is not worth jeopardizing your health over other people's opinions. Hang in there. I wish you all the best!zengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18244609166298603742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-33591665613152231302009-09-29T12:49:35.451-04:002009-09-29T12:49:35.451-04:00BTW, I forgot to say "Lots of luck!" and...BTW, I forgot to say "Lots of luck!" and "Don't POAS!" Testing at home has always jinxed me. Our two pregnancies that worked, I refused to test.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07843760065614670505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-32166432473784022442009-09-29T12:47:57.797-04:002009-09-29T12:47:57.797-04:00Ugh! Mothers! Don't get me started on mine. ...Ugh! Mothers! Don't get me started on mine. I have her only three grandchildren and she never sees them. Hasn't seen the twins since they were in the hospital in June! She hasn't come to see us since they've been home. And she told me when my surprise baby shower was that my friends were throwing for me. And then she didn't come, which meant my grandmother couldn't come, because if my mom came she would have given her a ride.<br /><br />I'm not trying to make your problems sound small. I'm appalled by your mom's reaction that it should be no big deal to tell you. You just got me thinking on my own vent.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07843760065614670505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-31692000171587325662009-09-29T01:18:42.316-04:002009-09-29T01:18:42.316-04:00That frigging sucks. Take care of yourself, please...That frigging sucks. Take care of yourself, please.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-83733647936822892482009-09-28T20:34:12.686-04:002009-09-28T20:34:12.686-04:00Read my last post. BIL and wife who have been mar...Read my last post. BIL and wife who have been married less than 2 months are expecting too. She has 3 kids by 3 different fathers already. Here comes number 4 and number 4...I TOTALLY feel what you feel. Although luckily progesterone won't be in my system for a little while.Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00377807962772039692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-34568180224854132142009-09-28T14:55:23.967-04:002009-09-28T14:55:23.967-04:00It is too much to expect them to get it. That said...It is too much to expect them to get it. That said, it hurts. A lot. <br /><br />Two close friends got PG right around our first failed FET of this year. One has delivered, the other is on the brink.Lut C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03893061829410958985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-88426651888185043882009-09-28T13:42:37.745-04:002009-09-28T13:42:37.745-04:00You know, I really felt badly for you, reading thi...You know, I really felt badly for you, reading this post, and then I got to the end - when you mentioned you're in an Italian family. Then I REALLY felt bad. Oh, sweetie - boy am I sorry. You're right - please put yourself and your family first, because they never will.<br /><br />My mom is Italian, my dad is a WASP. Once my brother was born, my mom was all about the boy. She seemed to remember I was alive once he died. Then she found a "surrogate son", so I'm on the wayside again. Whatever....<br /><br />Hang in there and try not to worry. I know, the hormones can make you nuts. I'm sorry your parents can't understand. Is your brother sympathetic at all? I hope so. And I do so hope this cycle is THE cycle. I'm praying for you guys. Think positive, even though I know how hard that is. I just want it to work. Be well.Annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12459541854542034644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-69003985073215467972009-09-28T10:26:40.497-04:002009-09-28T10:26:40.497-04:00I'm so sorry, Sweetie!!
That is the worst plac...I'm so sorry, Sweetie!!<br />That is the worst place to be...when people who should protect you, hurt you. I'm so sorry.<br /><br />Thinking of you.<br /><br />(the first four letters of my word verification are: P A I N)BigP's Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07124157582246972372noreply@blogger.com