tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post6852476171670925289..comments2024-03-27T23:21:33.110-04:00Comments on Infertility SUCKS!: AftermathShttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03784823185795103613noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-56807095687671517462013-09-16T12:17:46.127-04:002013-09-16T12:17:46.127-04:00Hi, I've been reading and enjoying your posts ...Hi, I've been reading and enjoying your posts for some time now. I enjoy your spin on the topics. I'm finally going to bookmark your website so I can keep returning to it. I continuously happen upon it and keep thinking it's spectacular but never saving it. See you next time! Keep posting us with these great essays!http://www.entraroutlook.com.arhttp://www.entraroutlook.com.arnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-86525908874892440552011-11-23T15:12:54.348-05:002011-11-23T15:12:54.348-05:00Thanks for great information you write it very cle...Thanks for great information you write it very clean. I am very lucky to get this tips from you.<a href="http://www.hopefertility.co.uk/" rel="nofollow">IVF Fertility Clinic Glasgow </a>.ashwariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13172178758210914926noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-59805262474853764532011-08-22T17:13:13.955-04:002011-08-22T17:13:13.955-04:00I just ran across your blog and LOVE your honesty!...I just ran across your blog and LOVE your honesty!:) I am starting my first round of in vitro this week and I'm a hot mess! Having a baby is truly the hardest thing for some of us- so unfair!Thank you for sharing!Just started an infertility blog of my own to journal the honest feelings in this journey.:)Jonny and Brittanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08753078434384482912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-37068519649789569112011-07-10T00:53:33.115-04:002011-07-10T00:53:33.115-04:00Hang in there e are going for out third try
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...Hang in there e are going for out third try<br /><br />Nice<br /><br />Jose,<br /><a href="http://avigiftstore.com" rel="nofollow">http://avigiftstore.com</a>Josehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06182964556153811715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-72614957224925588462011-07-04T01:32:51.051-04:002011-07-04T01:32:51.051-04:00I read your articles and get a lot of info that I ...I read your articles and get a lot of info that I never know before. It’s hard to find knowledgeable people on this topic, but you sound like you know what you’re talking about! The information about fertility were really helpful. Thanks for posting a blog like this.women fertilityhttp://www.solutionstohealth.com.au/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-60784721794004123562011-06-06T23:54:40.185-04:002011-06-06T23:54:40.185-04:00That last sentence is dead on. I always thought ha...That last sentence is dead on. I always thought having a baby would be easy... until we decided to try to have one. It is hard- and doesn't quite seem fair.KJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16229160474135416135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-43809209209192267252011-05-14T23:59:32.369-04:002011-05-14T23:59:32.369-04:00Good luck to you guys :-)Good luck to you guys :-)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12438364971191416057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-43406605996017570282011-04-26T23:26:49.487-04:002011-04-26T23:26:49.487-04:00Hello, are you still there? Hope your healing o.k....Hello, are you still there? Hope your healing o.k. it's been a while and just want you to know a lot of us are thinking about youand wishing you well. I hope your finding happiness out there. God BlessAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-75671775294125670292011-03-10T23:22:34.672-05:002011-03-10T23:22:34.672-05:00i have been checking in on you for over 3 years an...i have been checking in on you for over 3 years and have been a silent cheerleader of your's for so long. i truly believe you will hold "your" baby in your arms some day. regardless of how this child comes into your life when you look into his/ her eyes it will all make sense. only then will you realize why you had to endure all this. that specific child is meant to be in your life and would not be in it without all this pain you suffered. this child will be your rainbow at the end of this storm- i truly believe this... xoxoxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-31940460396886457422011-03-05T10:48:50.461-05:002011-03-05T10:48:50.461-05:00Sorry to hear you're going through all this. ...Sorry to hear you're going through all this. I've found this blog helpful too.<br /><br />www.thechildlessmom.blogspot.comJoeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06428717481523132392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-78913575007087945322011-02-18T17:37:39.704-05:002011-02-18T17:37:39.704-05:00My husband looks NOTHING like his parents - to the...My husband looks NOTHING like his parents - to the point we all joke that he was switched at the hospital. He actually has some of the traits from his mother's side, but there really isn't any resemblance to his parents. I look like a good combination of my parents.<br /><br />We did DE IVF with my cousins' eggs (she volunteered). I'm glad she did, because our son has "my" eyes (as do ALL my cousins on that side of the family!), but more importantly because her family is tied to our family in such a wonderful way. My only brother passed away and DH is an only child. My cousins are now his aunts and uncles; their children, his cousins. We were close before this, but now it's wonderful to have this bond. <br /><br />My only concern for using an anonymous donor is for all those questions which will eventually come up. It's a lot to consider and whichever route you choose, I do hope you'll be successful :)Annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12459541854542034644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-76902727251832271002011-02-17T14:35:34.552-05:002011-02-17T14:35:34.552-05:00De-lurking to add one little tidbit of insight:
Wh...De-lurking to add one little tidbit of insight:<br />When we chose to adopt, the loss of that bio connection was not as hard as the loss of "seeing" it. What I was not prepared for is that the learned behaviours of my daughter truly are easy to see as either myself or DH. It turns out the thing I was most upset about losing was never really lost.<br />So while a child from a DE or adoption may not look like you physically, he/she will still become a part of you and have your traits.<br />Good luck with whatever path you choose!Barely Sanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13264676811698784334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-49782298859643152302011-02-17T12:06:17.382-05:002011-02-17T12:06:17.382-05:00I'm not sure that this would provide any comfo...I'm not sure that this would provide any comfort, but my extremely fertile friend who took a whole month to get pregnant did tell me after our fourth IVF with the last of my husband's sperm that seeing yourself in your children is interesting for about ten minutes and then not really interesting at all. Now that we are on to donor sperm, I think about that a lot.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-17919080449243552012011-02-16T21:13:42.588-05:002011-02-16T21:13:42.588-05:00Hey if new jersey is like cali, it will take a cou...Hey if new jersey is like cali, it will take a couple on weeks-months to get ready to adopt like adoption Classes, home visit etc. you can start that process if your thinking about adoption. And if later down the line you two decide that adoption is not for you then you dont go through with it. No matter what you guys decide, when you finally meet your child, adopted or DEIVF you'll be in love.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-91334399270170416572011-02-16T16:09:01.915-05:002011-02-16T16:09:01.915-05:00When we learned what was wrong after a measly 3 ye...When we learned what was wrong after a measly 3 years of trying I regretted 'all that time' we had spent doing pointless things. Like try naturally. Or do IUI. <br />I think it's only natural that you're frustrated about all those years. More so for each year. I'm embarassed to even make the comparison. <br />But there was no test available to give us the information earlier. There still isn't. <br /><br />It must be very frustrating to now have a new plan in mind and not be able to start planning. I hope things change in the fall.Lut C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03893061829410958985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-87197740070761033692011-02-16T14:10:51.799-05:002011-02-16T14:10:51.799-05:00We often joke that Malka and Noah Matan were cheap...We often joke that Malka and Noah Matan were cheaper than trying to get me preggers....<br /><br />And the bonus is that sexy tax credit after adoptions are finalized.<br /><br />xoShellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03159550437519461534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740212.post-74905765241904331302011-02-16T10:52:42.350-05:002011-02-16T10:52:42.350-05:00Isn't that last sentence the truth. I always ...Isn't that last sentence the truth. I always thought the first year was supposed to be the hardest...BigP's Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07124157582246972372noreply@blogger.com