Monday, October 05, 2009

11dp5dt-Beta Hell

Today's beta shows that my levels did go up, however, not as much as they hoped. The nurse said it was "20" (as to the exact number I don't know...guess I'll have to find that out tomorrow). So....from 15.6 to 20 pretty much sucks big monkey ass, right? The nurse who called me said that Dr. Pipsqueak still wants me to continue on the meds for two more days, then come in for Beta #3. When I asked her how realistic this pregnancy could be, she replied that "it doesn't look too good", but then again, sometimes things actually work out (which is why they're keeping me on the meds, I suppose). On one hand, it's good news that it DID go up, but not so good that it didn't double like they wanted. As to whether or not it will be considered viable....well, it's anyone's guess at this point. I've been trying to research on the 'Ol Interweb to see if there are any cases of women with low betas/doubling times that have gone on to have successful pregnancies, and there are women out there, so I guess there's always hope for me. The odds are against me, but there's always a chance, right?

It's odd-I didn't get really upset when I got the phone call (probably because I was in the middle of a faculty meeting), and I'm not totally gutted right now. Maybe I'm still in a state of shock over the whole fucking thing, but I just have a peaceful feeling about this (at least, at this point in time). Sure I want this to work, but it's not up to me, ultimately. That embryo just needs to either make it, or it won't. I've been through this before, and yes, it sucks royally. But at least I know what to expect, unlike the last time. Last night, as I was lying in bed, I had a little talk with the Man Upstairs (as well as St. Anthony, St. Gerard, St. Rita, St. Theresa and the ever-appropriate St. Jude....patron saint of lost causes) and just asked for a sign that this will all work out for the best. Needless to say I went to bed without a definitive answer.

On the way home today I was driving up the Parkway when I looked up at the sky. It was a partly-cloudy day, where the clouds are all puffy and look like cotton balls. Anyway.....so I was thinking about the game I used to play when I was a little kid, where you would look at the clouds and see what objects you could "see" in the clouds, when I looked at the cloud formation that was directly in front of me. It was in the shape of an early fetus, lying on it's back. You know what I mean-that picture you see when it's around 6-10 weeks old. Yeah.

My question is: is it wishful thinking, or is it that sign that I asked for? The jury is still out on that one.

13 comments:

Shelli said...

fuckety fuck. Up, yes, but not UUUUUUP.

Why aren't things crystal clear for once?

Here's a list of betas reported in SUCCESSFUL pregnancies: http://www.betabase.info/showBasicChart.php?type=Single

xox

(My word verification has the word GUM in it - as in STICKY. Hmmmm)

Anna said...

Hooo boy. I'm praying for you because you're right - it's completely out of our hands. Hang in thee, Sweetie. Everything is crossed.

Jessica said...

*Praying* as always... He's gotta be sick of me by now - no? Just answer it already!!!

meandbaby said...

Here from LFCA. Sorry for beta hell. I'm so hoping for you!

Heather said...

I take it as a sign. I'm holding on to Hope. I got that Bitch in a headlock - she isn't going anywhere!

Ms. J said...

No words of wisdom, just hopes for magic.

Lut C. said...

Beta-Hell is the word. I'm still hoping for you.

Thalia said...

it's a miserable place to be. Hang in there.

addingtothepack said...

Here from LFCA to wish you the best of luck with a much higher Beta #3. I think you should take the cloud formation as a sign.

Aunt Becky said...

Sending love, light and prayers.

theclam said...

I'm so sorry you're in Beta hell. I hope this ends up being a miracle for you honey. From the bottom of my heart.

(LFCA)

Meghan said...

Damn...Sorry you're stuck in this place. Hoping beta #3 is much MUCH better

Dana said...

I'm still praying for you Stef!